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“When there’s a gap between what I’m thinking and what I’m saying, it’s because the words coming out of my mouth are the only ones I can access at that time.”

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Naoki Higashida
Naoki Higashida

Naoki Higashida is a Japanese author known for his unique perspective and profound insights. Born in 1992, he has autism and communicates through writing. His works, 'The Reason I Jump' and 'Life in the Stars', have gained widespread popularity, providing valuable insights into the world of autism. more

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