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“And Phoebe and Sebastian went their separate ways, to the blacksmith shop and the library, after several backward glances that weren't coordinated enough to allow either to know that the other one was looking.”

Quote by Jean Ferris

Work

Thrice Upon a Marigold

This book is a compilation of tales that explore various narratives, with marigolds serving as a central motif throughout the stories. more

Author

Jean Ferris
Jean Ferris

Jean Ferris, born in the United States in 1939, was an accomplished writer whose works spanned various literary genres, including novels, poetry, and drama. Ferris is known for her unique narrative style and profound insights into human nature. more

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