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“This story sounds as though it were invented, but it is true from beginning to end. There are people who have to pay for the smallest things in life with their very substance and their spinal cord. That is a constantly recurring pain, and then when they are tired of suffering… Does not mother love belong to the ‘smallest’, but also indispensable, things in life, for which many people paradoxically have to pay by giving up their living selves?”

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Book:The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self
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The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self

This book delves into the complexities of the psychological development of gifted individuals, examining the unique challenges they encounter as they strive to discover and express their true selves. more

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Alice Miller
Alice Miller

Alice Miller, born on January 12, 1923, and died on April 12, 2010, was a renowned psychologist. Her research focused on child psychology and the psychology of abuse, delving deeply into the psychological impact of child abuse and neglect. more

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