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“While the daughter of a helpless father develops a hypercompetent physical self-reliance that encourages her to take responsibility for those around her, the daughter of a distant father becomes more emotionally independent. As an adult, she's wary of depending on others; feeling physically abandoned by one parent and emotionally abandoned by the other, she selects only a handful of people to whom she'll get close.”

Quote by Hope Edelman

Work

Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

This book examines the unique and often overlooked grief experienced by daughters who have lost their mothers, whether through death, abandonment, or other forms of separation. It delves into how such a loss shapes a woman's identity, relationships, and sense of self across different stages of life. Drawing from extensive interviews and psychological research, the author addresses topics such as the search for maternal guidance, the impact on romantic partnerships and motherhood, and the process of healing. The work is recognized as a seminal resource on the subject, offering validation and insight for those navigating this specific form of bereavement. more

Author

Hope Edelman
Hope Edelman

Hope Edelman is an American author born on June 17, 1964. Her works primarily focus on women's issues, particularly discussions about motherhood and feminine identity. Edelman is known for her in-depth research and moving narratives, with her books having a wide-reaching impact among women. more

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