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“Your fear is not only hurting me, it’s hurting you… Consider how often you have dismissed your own appearance, behaviors, emotions and aspirations for being too feminine or masculine. What might your life be if you didn’t impose these designations on yourself, let alone on me?”

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I'm Afraid of Men.

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Vivek Shraya

Vivek Shraya is a Canadian singer known for her unique musical style and diverse artistic expression. Born in 1981, she has a passion for music from a young age and has showcased her talents across various fields. more

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