“Well, we're grasping for two things at once. Partly for communion with others - that's the deepest instinct in us. And partly, we're seeking security. By constant communion with others we hope we shall be able to accept the horrible fact of our total solitude.” WellsTwoFactsAbleAcceptingSecuritySolitudeConstantInstinctSeekingHorribleTwo ThingsCommunionGrasping Author:Ingmar Bergman
“Take risks! That is really what life is about. We must pursue our own happiness. Nobody has ever lived our lives; ther are no guidelines. Trust your instincts. Accept nothing but the best. But then also look for it carefully. Don't allow it to slip between your fingers. Sometimes, good things come to us in a such a quiet fashion. And nothing comes complete. It is what we make of whatever we encounter that determines the outcome. What we choose to see, what we choose to save. And what we choose to remember. Never foget that all the love in your life is there, inside you, always.” LooksSometimesRememberLife IsAcceptingOur LivesRiskFashionQuietGood ThingsInstinctFingersDeterminePursueOutcomesEncountersSlipsGuidelinesTrust Your Instincts Author:Linda Olsson
“In every human being one or the other of these two instincts is predominant: the active or positive instinct to offer hospitality, the negative or passive instinct to accept it. And either of these instincts is so significant of character that one might as well say that mankind is divisible into two great classes: hosts and guests.” HumansWellsTwoCharacterMightHuman BeingsAcceptingClassMankindOffersNegativeInstinctActiveSignificantHostGuestsPassiveHospitality Book:And Even Now Source: And Even Now
“A happy marriage perhaps represents the ideal of human relationship -- a setting in which each partner, while acknowledging the need of the other, feels free to be what he or she by nature is: a relationship in which instinct as well as intellect can find expression; in which giving and taking are equal; in which each accepts the other, and I confronts Thou.” NeedsGivingFeelsHumansWellsAcceptingMarriageExpressionEqualIdealsInstinctIntellectPartnersSettingSettingsHuman RelationsHuman RelationshipsHappy Marriage Book:The Integrity of the Personality Source: The Integrity of the Personality
“We accept the need to train extensively to fly a plane; but think instinct should be enough for marrying and raising kids.” ThinkingNeedsShouldEnoughKidsAcceptingTrainInstinctPlanesMarryingRaising Kids Author:Alain de Botton