“Your unhappiness cannot be blamed on your past or your environment. And it isn’t that you lack competence. You just lack courage. One might say you are lacking in the courage to be happy.” PastHappinessJoyBlissChoiceAdlerian PsychologyLifesytle Book:The Courage to Be Disliked: How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness Source: The Courage to Be Disliked: How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
“... [I]nstead of taking this poor sinner to the cross to put self to death and to 1 John 1:9 for forgiveness and cleansing, Springle talks about how this poor codependent has been suffering from a lack of self-worth. In face, he declares that the codependent's sin is the idolatry of trying to "get his security and value from someone or something other than the Lord." Thus the answer is to get your self-worth from Jesus. This sounds more like the gospel of Adler, Maslow, and Rogers (with Jesus conveniently added to meet the hierarchy of needs) than the gospel Paul preached.” JesusChristianityPsychologyJesus ChristHierarchy Of NeedsMaslow S Hierarchy Of NeedsAdlerian Psychology Book:12 Steps to Destruction: Codependecy/Recovery Heresies Source: 12 Steps to Destruction: Codependecy/Recovery Heresies