“to be a good advisor, you have to set aside your own personal opinions and feelings in a kind of detachment or camouflage – since self-interest is incompatible with objectivity – and avoid the limelight. Maintained over years, this steady, watchful, guarded attitude had become a way of life for me – one in which I constantly looked out for pitfalls, anticipated threats coming over the horizon, and readied myself to move and adapt at a moment’s notice and melt from the picture. Was it possible that that I had blended too much into the background of my own life… blurring my own identity” International DevelopmentOverseasAdvisorAid WorkRelief Work Book:Raising Hare: A Memoir Source: Raising Hare: A Memoir
“One week after New Year's Day in 2006, I was on a flight to Aceh…As we walked down the steps on to the tarmac, the air felt humid and tropical, familiar and almost Balinese. It felt like going home. As the heavy air embraced me, my first inclination was to relax into it, but yet this was not home and my entire body remained on edge.” DevelopmentTravelAcehAid Work Book:The Frangipani Year: Love and Aid Work in Post-Tsunami Aceh Source: The Frangipani Year: Love and Aid Work in Post-Tsunami Aceh