“Every day there are people who feel as if life itself has left them on a doorstep or thrown them away. Abandonment is about loss of love itself, that crucial loss of connectedness. It often involves breakup, betrayal, aloneness—something people can experience all at once, or one after another over a period of months, or even years later as an aftershock. Abandonment means different things to different people. It is an extremely personal and individual experience. Sometimes it is lingering grief caused by old losses. Sometimes it is fear. Sometimes it can be an invisible barrier holding us back from forming relationships, from reaching our true potential. It can take the form of self-sabotage. We get caught up in patterns of abandonment.” BetrayalBreakupAbandonmentLoss Of LoveSelf SabotageAlonenes Book:The Journey from Abandonment to Healing: Turn the End of a Relationship into the Beginning of a New Life Source: The Journey from Abandonment to Healing: Turn the End of a Relationship into the Beginning of a New Life