“Christ's version of kindness: I know you are hurt. I contributed to that. Maybe, I should have said more. Done more. Listened. I am sorry for my part in the situation. I am sorry if I caused you any pain or confused you with my actions or words. How can I help you move on? I want you to have peace in your life. Let's end this by communicating. The world's perverted version of kindness: You caused your own pain. You get what you get. Get over it and move on. Maybe, one day you will figure out what happiness really means. By the way, I am not responsible for giving it to you. Nor, do I have to put up with people that don't bring me joy or who I can't trust. I am only responsible for myself. I will pray for you because I am a good Christian.” SpiritualityCompassionKindnessMannersMoving OnBeing RealReaching OutChurch MembersUngodly PeopleLost PeopleCommunicaitonEnding PainFake Members Author:Shannon L. Alder
“When it comes to communication, you want to change your perspective from what is being said, to what is being understood, as the owner of making sense of your communication is your listener after all.” Self ImprovementSelf LeadershipCommunicaiton Book:Building Bridges: Embracing NLP for better mediation Source: Building Bridges: Embracing NLP for better mediation