“Ernest Wolf (1988) explains that “merger-hungry” personalities need to control others completely. The borderline Witch’s merger-hungry personality leaves her children feeling devoured, suffocated, oppressed, and imprisoned. Even as adults, her children may dream about prison camps, holocausts, invasions, wars, and natural disasters. They fear for their survival.” TraumaManipulationChild AbuseBorderline Personality DisorderBpdAbusive MotherBorderline MotherControlling Mother Book:Understanding the Borderline Mother Source: Understanding the Borderline Mother
“I think my mom wanted to keep me as controllable as possible. I think she really wanted to have her influence on me, and me growing up was a threat to that.” Child AbuseAbusive MotherAbusive MothersEnmeshmentAbusive MomControlling Mother Author:Jennette McCurdy