“I don't think, for instance, that you can invoke a Protestant ethic when it comes to loss. You can't say, "Oh, I'll go through loss this way, and that will be the result, and I'll apply myself to the aks, and I'll endeavor to achieve the resolution of grief that is before me." I think that one is hit by waves, and that one starts out the day with an aim, a project, a plan, and one finds oneself foiled.” LossGriefDealing With Loss Book:Undoing Gender Source: Undoing Gender
“What are we to do in this time? How do we function? How do we not completely lose it? I choose to use my #pen to cut open my shell to release the pus of pain and trauma and loss mixed with sludge-like #ash.” PainLossTraumaGrief And LossWriting Process2020VolcanoSt VincentDealing With Loss Book:Chronicles Of A Seawoman: A Collection Of Poems Source: Chronicles Of A Seawoman: A Collection Of Poems