“When you think this pain is all you deserve, you are right. You are the only one that can decide how long you will walk in hell.” PainHappinessJoyGrowthFreedomHellSelf EsteemSelf HelpWalkingLetting GoRespectAdversityValueDivorceSelf ConfidenceSelf WorthSelf RealizationMoving OnSelf RespectWorthStrugglesFinding PeaceWorthinessJourneysGreat ValueFinding JoyPainful SituationsKnowing Your WorthEnding RelationshipsSelf Imposed PainToo LittleSelf ImposedToo LongDeserving RespectPutting Up Author:Shannon L. Alder