“If you keep the distinction between speech and violence clear in your mind, then many more options are available to you. As Marcus Aurelius advised, "Choose not to be harmed- and you won't feel harmed. Don't feel harmed- and you haven't been." The more ways your identity can be threatened by casual daily interactions, the more valuable it will be to cultivate the Stoic (and Buddhist, and CBT) ability to not be emotionally reactive, to not let others control your mind and your cortisol levels... words don't cause stress directly; they can only provoke stress and suffering in a person who has interpreted those words as posing a threat.” ChoicesEmotionsWordsSpeakersUniversitiesCollegesFake Danger Book:The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting up a Generation for Failure Source: The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting up a Generation for Failure