“If you want to be my friend, I prefer honesty to fake praise. I was never one to run with the wolves.” Fake PeopleGirl PowerWomen S StrengthPoetry LifeFake FriendsChristina StrigasFake Friendships Author:Christina Strigas
“What does it mean to "cast shade" on your friend? It's when you try to spot their weaknesses, shortcomings or insecurities in any given situation in order to act in the more favourable or popular way, so that you can shine in the eyes of others. Example: Your friend is under sudden, aggressive criticism; instead of helping her out of it, you throw her under the bus by siding with her critics. Another example: your friend has social anxiety; you spot this as an opportunity to be "the fun one" and deliberately, maliciously try to be outgoing and joyful even when you're not genuinely feeling that way. Outshining someone by virtue of deliberate comparison to their vulnerable spots: that is casting shade.” RelationshipsFriendshipsFake FriendsTrue FriendsThrowing ShadeFake FriendshipsCasting Shade Author:C. JoyBell C.