“Trying to change someone only makes them cling to their existing behavior with brutish, primal force.” Change Your LifeChange Of HeartChange Of MindBrian D AmbrosioForced Change Book:Fresh Oil and Loose Gravel: Road Poetry by Brian D'Ambrosio 1998-2008 Source: Fresh Oil and Loose Gravel: Road Poetry by Brian D'Ambrosio 1998-2008