“This is not a piece of paper, but my arm extending across all the damn miles between us to hold you and hug you with all the strength, we have had to gain from the pain.” LovePainLettersLongingDistanceStrength Through AdversityWlwGain From Pain Book:Sister Love: The Letters of Audre Lorde and Pat Parker 1974-1989 Source: Sister Love: The Letters of Audre Lorde and Pat Parker 1974-1989