“I have grown to understand that it's a good thing for people to probe a little bit into the way grieving people feel, maybe ask them questions. There is a lot of hesitancy around this because it feels invasive, but the bereaved need encouragement to speak sometimes. They are prone to silence because they're worried about the effect their sadness will have on other people. And this silence becomes habitual, but also builds up like a terrible pressure.” FriendshipGriefCuriosityAsking QuestionsGrieving Friends Book:Faith, Hope and Carnage Source: Faith, Hope and Carnage