“The wise person is there not to be walked over but to stand up for the actual truth, to call the other person out when need be, if they are hiding from some hard reality. “Receptivity without confrontation leads to a bland neutrality that serves nobody,” the theologian Henri Nouwen wrote. “Confrontation without receptivity leads to an oppressive aggression which hurts everybody.” WisdomTruthConfrontationWise PeopleReceptivityTough LovePushoverCalling OutHenri Nouwen Book:How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen Source: How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
“In solitude we can come to the realization that we are not driven together but brought together. In solitude we come to know our fellow human beings not as partners who can satisfy our deepest needs, but as brothers and sisters with whom we are called to give visibility to God's all-embracing love. In solitude we discover that community is not a common ideology, but a response to a common call. In solitude we indeed realize that community is not made but given.” CommunitySolitudeSpiritual DisciplinesHenri NouwenSacred Practices Author:Henri Nouwen
“I can be happy or unhappy in all situations. I am sure of it, because I have been. I have felt distraught and joyful in situations of abundance as well as poverty, in situations of popularity and anonymity, in situations of success and failure. The difference was never based on the situation itself, but always on my state of mind and heart. When I knew I was walking with God, I always felt happy and at peace. When I was entangled in my own complaints and emotional needs, I always felt restless and divided.” JoyPeacePeace Of MindPeacefulnessWalking With GodHenri NouwenHappypoverty Author:Henri J.M. Nouwen
“Who can save a child from a burning house without taking the risk of being hurt by the flames? Who can listen to a story of loneliness and despair without taking the risk of experiencing similar pains in his own heart and even losing his precious peace of mind? In short: “Who can take away suffering without entering it?” Christian MinistryHenri NouwenWounded Healer Book:The Wounded Healer Source: The Wounded Healer