“How we present ourselves at any given time is dependent on the situation. We constantly balance the tension of high aspirations with the pragmatism of realistic expectations. The key is to represent ourselves in such a way that we can fulfill the expectations we create.” TensionDependentRealisticPresentRelevancePragmaticMatter MoreRealistic ExpectationsHigh Aspirations Book:Relevance: Matter More Source: Relevance: Matter More