“The statement I made in regard to, "Will can do whatever he wants," has illuminated the need to discuss the relationship between trust and love and how they co-exist...Should we be married to individuals who can not be responsible for themselves and their families within their freedom? Should we be in relationships with individuals who we can not entrust to their own values, integrity, and LOVE...for us??? Here is how I will change my statement...Will and I BOTH can do WHATEVER we want, because we TRUST each other to do so. This does NOT mean we have an open relationship...this means we have a GROWN one.” WantNeedsShouldMeanDoeMadeValuesIndividualCan DoIntegrityMarriedAnd LoveResponsibleRegardStatementsCan NotBeing MarriedBeing ResponsibleLove And Trust Author:Jada Pinkett Smith
“There are normal times when it is wholly admirable to be steadfast, resolute, unconflicted, and therefore when integrity is unmistakenly a virtue. The person of integrity knows what to do, and does it. But as we have been exploring, there are also times when certainty and single-mindedness indicate something less admirable: a deafness to voices that should be heard or a blindness to aspects of a situation that need to be considered.” KnowsNeedsShouldPersonsDoeHas BeensVoiceSituationVirtueHeardIntegrityNormalAspectCertaintyExploringBlindnessAdmirableSteadfastResoluteDeafnessSingle Mindedness Book:Mirror, Mirror: The Uses and Abuses of Self-Love Source: Mirror, Mirror: The Uses and Abuses of Self-Love
“But that's always the way; it don't make no difference whether you do right or wrong, a person's conscience ain't got no sense, and just goes for him anyway. If I had a yaller dog that didn't know no more than a person's conscience does I would pison him. It takes up more room than all the rest of a person's insides, and yet ain't no good, nohow.” IfsKnowsWayPersonsDoeDifferencesRoomsDogIntegrityConscience Author:Mark Twain