“Puffer fish inflate into a ball when they feel threatened as a warning to predators. The males work endlessly on designing their territories to attract a mate. Burrowing diligently with their fins, reorganizing shells. They work twenty-four hours and many many days without taking a break. The males have many mates and reign over multiple female territories. Once the female is in his territory and tries to leave he will bite her. The female is only allowed a visitor if the visiting fish mutes its bright blue, yellow, and orange spots so that the king puffer fish doesn't feel threatened. You get what I'm saying, Ana?” AbuseMale EgoIpv Book:Dominicana Source: Dominicana
“Truth: Rape does indeed happen between girlfriend and boyfriend, husband and wife. Men who force their girlfriends or wives into having sex are committing rape, period. The laws are blurry, and in some countries marital rape is legal. But it still is rape.” Domestic ViolenceRapeSexual AssaultDomestic AbuseRape CultureRape MythsIntimate Partner ViolenceMarital RapeDate RapeCoercive ActsIpvRape ConvictionsTeenage Dating Book:Invisible Girls: The Truth About Sexual Abuse Source: Invisible Girls: The Truth About Sexual Abuse
“I think a lot about what evidence, had it been measured or recorded or kept, would help my case. Not in a court of law, exactly, because there are many things that happen to us that are beyond the purview of even a perfectly executed legal system. But the court of other people, the court of the body, the court of queer history.” AbuseQueerInterpersonal ViolenceIpv Book:In the Dream House Source: In the Dream House