“I know the you who’s in the margins. I know you’re thinking hard about what you want and why– more than some people ever do. I know you can take on a challenge and kick its ass. And I know you’ve tried harder to understand me than anyone has in a long time.” UnderstandingRelationshipsFriendshipMarginsSDoug DorstShip Of TheseusJ J Abrams Book:S. Source: S.