“It is not a person or situation that affects your life; it is the meaning you give to that person or situation, which influences your emotions and actions. Your choice is to change the meaning you gave it or to change your response, in order to create the outcome you want.” LoveHappinessJoyWinningGrowthChangeFreedomSituationDreamsTrustPerspectiveEgoLosingEmotionsSlaveryCompetitionIntuitionPursueOutcomesSentimentsFightPassivePersonOutlookPositive OutlookSymbolismLeaveGoStaySignsNegative EmotionsComeBad SituationsPositive EmotionsAffectHard QuestionsMeaningsNo TrustSaddnessAgressiveDon T FightNegative OutlookBad PerceptionGood SituationsDon T PursueGood PerceptionLack Of IntuitionMeanings We Give PeopleMeanings We Give SituationsWhat It Means To YouWrong Perception Author:Shannon L. Alder