“Sadness, lack of recognition, and loneliness turn into bitterness. When people believe that their identity is unrecognized, it feels like injustice—because it is. People who have been treated unjustly often lash out, seek ways to humiliate those who they feel have humiliated them. Loneliness thus leads to meanness. As the saying goes, pain that is not transformed gets transmitted.” PainSadnessLonelinessInjusticeBitternessHumiliationMeannessLack Of Recognition Book:How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen Source: How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen