“Next year it would have been 20 years and you are wastefully dead who might have made the leap we talked, too late, of making which I live now not as a leap but a succession of brief, amazing movements each one making possible the next” DeathPoetryRelationshipsLossGriefPoemLivingRemembranceSurvivingMemorialization Book:Diving Into the Wreck Source: Diving Into the Wreck