“The absolutely detached Lord has said, "The one who does not have abhorrence (dwesh) or love (prem) over both, bad deeds (paap) and good deeds (punya) is absolutely free from attachment and abhorrence (vitaraag)!” GodPure LoveEnlightened OneAbhorrenceDemerit KarmaMerit Karma Book:Who am I? Source: Who am I?
“If your merit karma is unfolding, then the other person will speak well of you; and if your demerit karma is unfolding, then the other person will curse at you. Who is at fault in this? Therefore, you should say, "It is definitely my unfolding karma and the other person is just an evidentiary doer (nimit)." By doing so, our karmic fault will fall off (discharge) and no new one will be bound.” KarmaFree From FaultsDemerit KarmaMerit Karma Book:Generation Gap Source: Generation Gap