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“As parents we're meant to help each other out and build each other up.”

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Book:Kindness Wins

Source: Kindness Wins

“The Mommy Wars, as they stand today, serve as an effective check on the ambitions of the American mother. The phenomenon keeps women in a perpetual state of guilt, shame and inadequacy, and does so without involving anyone but wealthy white women.”

Feminism Mommy Wars

Book:The Radical Housewife: Redefining Family Values for the 21st Century

Source: The Radical Housewife: Redefining Family Values for the 21st Century

“This idea—that what parents need or want will play a role in choices—can be hard to admit. In a sense, I think this is at the core of a lot of the “Mommy War” conflicts. We all want to be good parents. We want our choices to be the right ones. So, after we make the choices, there is a temptation to decide they are the perfect ones. Psychology has a name for this: avoiding cognitive dissonance. If I choose not to breastfeed, I don’t want to acknowledge that there are even small possible benefits to breastfeeding. So I encamp myself in the position that breastfeeding is a waste of time. On the other side, if I spend two years taking my boobs out every three hours, I need to believe that this is what it takes to deliver a life of continued successes to my child. This is a deeply human temptation, but it is also really counterproductive. Your choices can be right for you but also not necessarily the best choices for other people. Why? You are not other people. Your circumstances differ. Your preferences differ. In the language of economics, your constraints differ.”

Parenting Mommy Wars Breastsfeeding

Book:Cribsheet: A Data-Driven Guide to Better, More Relaxed Parenting, from Birth to Preschool

Source: Cribsheet: A Data-Driven Guide to Better, More Relaxed Parenting, from Birth to Preschool