“I've since learned that when you lose your same sex parent as a child, it's very common to believe that you, too, will die at the same age as your parent, or when your child is the same age you were. It's a kind of 'instinctive' knowledge, like knowing if you jump into your bed from far enough away, the monsters aren't allowed to grab your ankles.” GriefFear Of DeathBreast CancerMother Loss Book:Sex, Drugs, Rock 'n Roll, and a Tiara Source: Sex, Drugs, Rock 'n Roll, and a Tiara