“I knew it would end. I pretended I didn't because that seemed like the human thing to do. But I knew. She wanted monogamy, indefinitely. It's who she was. I wanted non-monogamy, indeterminately. It's who I am. We settled on monogamy, indeterminately, sacrificing parts of ourselves to be together and calling it love.” LoveSexSecurityConflictAttractionMonogamyInternal ConflictSettleScreaming Into PillowsNon Monogamy Book:Screaming into Pillows Source: Screaming into Pillows