“If they keep coming back to you, it isn't love. It is because you made yourself and easy option. The moment the thing they truly want becomes less difficult to obtain is when you will realize that your worth was on sale.” LoveRealityTruthRelationshipsSelf EsteemWake UpSelf ConfidenceSelf RespectEmpowering WomenBeggingLow Self EsteemReality CheckEasy LifeDelusionsLiving A LieOptionSaleKnowing Your WorthDating 101Stayingpositiveuniversity ComSettling For LessDivorce 101EnablerDivorce CareSelf LiesToo HardLearn The LessonLies We BelieveLiving With RespectDesperate WomenLess LossLow CostThird Choice Author:Shannon L. Alder
“Do not chose betrayal to save your physical body. Don't forget about your soul and mind, which have more control over us. One day , after all , repentance too can end with a bullet in the head from your own hands.” Self AwarenessBetrayalBroken HeartBetrayal QuotesLoyalty QuotesBetrayal TraumaBetrayal Of TrustSelf LiesBroken Mind Book:Blue House: Ten Years on The Way Home Source: Blue House: Ten Years on The Way Home
“He was done with every lie he'd ever allowed himself to believe, every lie he'd ever lived, every lie.” Society ThinkingSelf Lies Book:The Given Day Source: The Given Day
“Sometimes, we expect life to work a certain way and when it doesn’t we blame others or see it as a sign, rather than face the pain of the choices we should or shouldn’t have made. Real healing won’t begin until we stop saying, “God prevented this or that.” Often in our attempt to protect ourselves from pain, we leave things to fate and don’t take chances. Or, we don’t work hard enough to keep the blessings we are given. Maybe, we didn't recognize a blessing, until it was too late. Often, it is the lies we tell ourselves that keeps us stuck in a delusion of not being responsible for our lives. We leave it all up to God. The truth is we are not leaves blowing toward our destiny without any control. To believe this is to take away our freedom of choice and that of others. The final stage of grief is acceptance. This can’t be reached through always believing God willed the outcomes in our lives, despite our inaction or actions. To think so is to take the easy escape from our accountability. Sometimes, God has nothing to do with it. Sometimes, we just screwed up and guarded our heart from accepting it, by putting our outcome on God as the reason it turned out the way it did. Faith is a beautiful thing, but without work we can give into a mysticism of destiny that really doesn't teach us lessons or consequences for our actions. Life then becomes a distorted delusion of no accountability with God always to blame for battles we walked away from, won or loss.” LoveTryingWisdomActionJobsChoicesRelationshipsGriefPracticeSelf HelpAcceptanceIntegritySelf ImprovementLiesResponsibleSelf AwarenessMistakesDenialMysticismAccountabilityMysticalCareerConsequencesExcusesSelf DeceptionHoly GhostFriendshipsFreedom Of ChoiceScrew UpsSelf RighteousnessFreedom To ChooseDelusionsBlamingLack Of CompassionLack Of ResponsibilityPsychic ReadingsFaith Without Works Is DeadFaith Without WorksSelf LiesIn ActionCopoutsBreak ThroughsEasy OutEscape Goat Author:Shannon L. Alder