“My smart and kind and beautiful girl.” He liked to say that, had been saying it for years, and had always put “beautiful” last. Whether it was true or not, he'd tell me it was the least important of the three. “You are smart,” he'd say. “You should be kind. And if you are, you'll always be beautiful.” DaughtersRaising GirlsSmart Before Beautiful Book:Wild Hunger Source: Wild Hunger