“Above all, the abusive man wants to avoid having you zero in on his abusiveness itself. So he tries to fill your head up with excuses and distortions and keep you weighed down with self-doubt and self-blame. And, unfortunately, much of the society tends to follow unsuspectingly along behind him, helping him to close your eyes, and his, to his problem.” Abusive MenSocietal ConstructsSocietal Abuse Book:Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men Source: Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men