“Sometimes he wonders whether this very idea of loneliness is something he would feel at all had he not been awakened to the fact that he should be feeling lonely, that there is something strange and unacceptable about the life he has. Always, there are people asking him if he misses what it had never occurred to him to want, never occurred to him he might have . . . Some of them ask him with pity, and some ask him with suspicion: the first group feels sorry for him because they assume singledom is not his decision but a state imposed upon him; and the second group feels a kind of hostility for him, because they think that his singlehood is his decision, a defiant violation of a fundamental law of adulthood.” LonelinessJudgmentAdulthoodSingleA Little LifeHanya YanagiharaSocietal JudgmentSocietal Pressures Book:A Little Life Source: A Little Life
“Slut, bitch, prude, tease, ditz. They were all the same. Every girl felt like one of those sexist labels described her at some point. So, maybe, every girl felt like the Duff, too?” FeminismPersonal GrowthRealizationLabelsSocietal Pressures Book:The DUFF: Designated Ugly Fat Friend Source: The DUFF: Designated Ugly Fat Friend