“Sometimes when I was around Luke I forgot that I could walking away was an option. He has this pull - this way of drawing me into the challenge. When he was around, I was surrounded by his intensity and the world came down to that feeling, the give and take between us. He always seemed to know what to say to get my brain hooked too, which was the worst part.” IntensityHookedPush PullVerbal Sparing Theory Book:The Holiday Kiss Source: The Holiday Kiss