“The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality - to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting - but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail. It is as if to say: if these are not valued - if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing - are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.” IfsMayChildrenWholeFeelingsFormSpeakLanguageMoralMoralityMadNotionSanityAccurateTokensBlackmail Book:Going sane Source: Going sane
“People change, but there really are limits. One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life. We are children for a very long time.” PeopleChildrenLongOne ThingLimitsLong TimeTreatmentAbout YourselfPsychoanalytic Book:In Writing Source: In Writing
“The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .. Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’” PeopleTryingChildrenSelfUseFeelingsDoubtIndependentCuresAppetiteExcessHopelessness Author:Adam Phillips
“The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access” ChildrenMightObjectsFindingsObstaclesAccess Author:Adam Phillips
