“If you’re avoidant, you need to be able to maintain some distance, either emotional or physical, from your partner and preserve a large degree of separateness. In order to be happy in a relationship, we need to find a way to communicate our attachment needs clearly.” DistanceCommunicateSeparateAvoidantAttach Book:Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love Source: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love