“Don't interpret too literally the 'obey' of the Marriage Service. Your husband has no right to control your individuality. Don't be discontented and think your husband is not 'manly' because he happens to be short and thin, and not very strong. Manliness is not a purely physical quality.” IndividualityAppreciationObedienceControlRelationship AdviceMarriage AdviceManlinessToxic MasculinityLove AdviceObey Book:Don'ts for Wives Source: Don'ts for Wives