“From fear, partners often say, think, and do things that harm the relationship, like defending, criticizing, or avoiding. Many couples have a way to talk through the inevitable disruptions that arise, but when the interactions repeat without resolution, monstrous negative cycles can develop that are difficult to reverse without help.” RelationshipsMarriageCouplesRelationships Love Book:The Spotlight of Love: Insights and Skills for Couples Source: The Spotlight of Love: Insights and Skills for Couples