“A woman will not understand what true dependency is until she is cradling her own infant in her arms; nor will she likely achieve the self-confidence she craves until she has withstood, and transcended, the weight of responsibility a family places upon her -- a weight that makes all the paperwork and assignments of her in-basket seem feather-light.” SelfLightSeemsResponsibilityAchieveArmsWeightSelf ConfidenceFeathersInfantCraveBasketsAssignmentsDependencyPaperwork Book:What Our Mothers Didn't Tell Us: Why Happiness Eludes the Modern Woman Source: What Our Mothers Didn't Tell Us: Why Happiness Eludes the Modern Woman