“Everyone lies about sex, more or less, to themselves if not to others, to others if not to themselves, exaggerating its importance or minimizing its pull.” IfsLyingSexImportanceExaggeratingMinimizing Book:Dreaming of Hitler: Passions & Provocations Source: Dreaming of Hitler: Passions & Provocations
“How much simpler it would be all around if you could put your mind in a cast, like a broken ankle, and elicit murmurings of sympathy from other people instead of skepticism (“You can’t really be feeling as bad as all that”) and in some cases outright hostility (“Maybe if you stopped thinking about yourself so much ”).” PeopleIfsThinkingMindFeelingsWould BeCasesBrokenCastsAbout YourselfSkepticismHostilityAnklesThinking About YouMurmuringThinking About Yourself Author:Daphne Merkin
“Everything felt fragile and freshly come upon, but for now, at least, my depression had stepped back, giving me room to move forward. I had forgotten what it was like to be without it, and for a moment I floundered, wondering how I would recognize myself. I knew for certain it would return, sneaking up on me when I wasn’t looking, but meanwhile there were bound to be glimpses of light if only I stayed around and held fast to the long perspective. It was a chance that seemed worth taking.” IfsGivingLongMomentsLightMovingCertainFeltChanceRoomsWonderPerspectiveReturnBoundsForgottenMoving ForwardFragileGlimpseSneaking Up Author:Daphne Merkin
“It might pay to be resilient, if this was all being vulnerable and skinless got you. People didn’t stop and cluck over damage done unless you made it worth their while. Indeed, maybe it was time to rethink this whole salvation business. Or maybe I was less desperate, less teetering on the edge than I cared to admit. Now, that was a refreshing possibility.” PeopleIfsMadeDoneWholeMightPayPossibilitySalvationEdgesVulnerableMade ItDamageDesperateResilientRefreshing Author:Daphne Merkin
