“The attempt to escape from pain, is what creates more pain.” ConsciousnessCouragePsychologyMindfulnessBraveryAddictionDenialTherapySelf KnowledgeRepressionWellbeingDissociation Author:Gabor Maté
“Equally essential is a nourishing emotional connection, in particular the quality of attunement. Attunement, a process in which the parent is "tuned in" to the child's emotional needs, is a subtle process. It is deeply instinctive but easily subverted when the parent is stressed or distracted emotionally, financially or for any other reason. Attunement may also be absent if the parent never received it in his or her childhood. Strong attachment and love exist in many parent-child relationships but without attunement. Children in non-attuned relationships, may feel loved but on a deeper level do not experience themselves as being appreciated for who they really are. They learn to present only their "acceptable" side to the parent, repressing emotional responses the parent rejects and learning to reject themselves for even having such responses” EmotionPsychologyAttachmentRepression Book:When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress Source: When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress