“Messages we get about menopause more often tell us we must keep ourselves from much of what we want and need in this time. It's easy to get the idea that life in and after menopause is going to be little, dreary rituals of desperate maintenance and exacting control over food, exercise, the shape and size of our bodies, our skin, our intimate relationships, our sexuality, our leisure, our moods, robbing us of what pleasure we might have found in these things before.” WantMessagesControlNeedMaintenanceBodiesMenopauseMoodsPerimenopauseDreary Rituals Book:What Fresh Hell Is This?: Perimenopause, Menopause, Other Indignities, and You Source: What Fresh Hell Is This?: Perimenopause, Menopause, Other Indignities, and You