“Children raised with love and compassion will be free to use their time as adults in meaningful and creative ways, rather than expressing their childhood hurts in ways that harm themselves or others. If adults have no need to deal with the past, they can live fully in the present.” IfsWayNeedsChildrenUsePastHurtDealsCompassionCreativeChildhoodAdultsRaisedHarmMeaningfulLove And Compassion Book:The Natural Child: Parenting from the Heart Source: The Natural Child: Parenting from the Heart
“When we believe in our child fully, we trust that they are doing the very best they can at every moment, given their age, past experience and present circumstances. It is this kind of trust that I mean when I talk about parenting being on their child's side. Having someone dependably 'on their side' is absolutely critical if a child is to grow into adulthood with a generous capacity for love and trust. If we aren't on their side, who will be?” IfsBelieveKindMeanChildrenMomentsAgePastGivenGrowsSidesCircumstancesCapacityOur ChildrenCriticalGenerousAdulthoodPast ExperiencesLove And Trust Author:Jan Hunt