“Femininity in general is seen as frivolous. People often say feminine people are doing “the most”, meaning that to don a dress, heels, lipstick, and big hair is artifice, fake, and a distraction. But I knew even as a teenager that my femininity was more than just adornments; they were extensions of me, enabling me to express myself and my identity. My body, my clothes, and my makeup are on purpose, just as I am on purpose.” PeopleBodyBigsPurposeInspiringIdentityHairClothesDressesTeenagerFakeMakeupFeminineDistractionHeelsExtensionsFemininityLipstickEnablingFrivolousArtificeAdornmentBig Hair Book:Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More Source: Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More
“Becoming is the action that births our womanhood, rather than passive act of being born (an act none of us has a choice in). This short, powerful statement assured me that I have the freedom, in spite of and because of my birth, body, race, gender expectations, and economic resources, to define myself for myself and for others.” BodyActionChoicesBornPowerfulRaceEconomicBirthBecomingExpectationsResourcesGenderStatementsSpitePassiveWomanhoodAssuredEconomic Resources Author:Janet Mock
