“Chances are if you find yourself caught up in a political foofaraw at work, or in some family squabble at home, it's because someone else is succeeding in convincing you that his problem is your problem. The non-self-destructor recognizes this and as soon as possible, gives the sleepless night back to the person to whom it belongs.” ResponsibilityLetting GoDelegationSomeone Else S ProblemHyperviligance Book:How to Self-Destruct: Making the Least of What's Left of Your Career Source: How to Self-Destruct: Making the Least of What's Left of Your Career
“The greatest thing I learned while taking classes at Second City was the very first thing they taught: 'Yes, and...'. In improv, you keep scenes alive but accepting whatever you are given and then adding to it or amplifying it. There is no space on stage for 'No,' 'I'm sorry, you're mistaken,' or 'Yes, but...'. Those transitions kill energy, set up interpersonal conflict, engage the ego in a defensive posture, and stymie the flow of conversation onstage.” Life LessonsCommunication SkillsGood AdviceDefensivenessInterpersonal RelationshipsImprovInterpersonal Communication Book:How to Self-Destruct: Making the Least of What's Left of Your Career Source: How to Self-Destruct: Making the Least of What's Left of Your Career