“We like to look for patterns and find connections in unrelated events. This way we can explain them to ourselves. Life seems neater, or at least less messy. We need to feel we are in control: it is integral to our self-esteem. We also know, though we deny it, that we are not in control. So we settle for the illusions of control. What if we stopped fooling ourselves?” IfsKnowsWayNeedsFeelsLooksSelfSeemsEventsSelf EsteemIllusionConnectionsPatternsDenyEsteemSettlingWhat IfMessyIllusion Of ControlFooling Ourselves Author:Jessica Zafra
“Someday you will look back on all the awful stuff that's happening to you, and fondly smile. Doesn't say much about the future, does it?” LooksDoeStuffHappeningsAwfulSomeday Author:Jessica Zafra
“Once you’ve read too many trashy best-sellers, you begin to look for something with substance, something that attempts to define the universe.” LooksUniverseSubstanceSellersBest Sellers Author:Jessica Zafra
