“The formless cannot be based on the form. The form needs to be based on the formless.” NeedsForm Author:John de Ruiter
“The new ground that you form in your living is a new self, a new self that isn't at all of the middle ground, a lived-in self that has no need of middle ground. That new self makes unseen reality within seen.” NeedsSelfRealityFormMiddleUnseenMiddle GroundNew Self Author:John de Ruiter
“Start out identifying what you know are delicacies of being within, tiny little touches of knowledge that has beingness in it, special soft spots of heart. As soon as you identify them, you need to believe them.” KnowsNeedsBelieveHeartLittlesSpecialTinySpotsIdentifyingDelicacy Author:John de Ruiter
“The more that you're knowing, the more you will be feeling and seeing, the more that you will hurt in your heart, and in your self. Deep heart understanding replaces your need and your holding of personal truths.” NeedsHeartSelfFeelingsUnderstandingHurtKnowingSeeingDeep HeartPersonal Truth Author:John de Ruiter
“Love doesn't need to be answered, It just quietly and freely gives.” NeedsGiving Author:John de Ruiter
“You need to bring your awakening into city life. Bring it into fast-paced complexity where it thrives.” NeedsCitiesAwakeningComplexityThriveFast PacedCity Life Author:John de Ruiter
“Everything needs to touch your heart. Everything that touches your heart brings out the deep in you.” NeedsHeart Author:John de Ruiter
“For you to have real love, you need to be able to move past your self.” NeedsRealSelfAblePastMovingLove YouReal Love Author:John de Ruiter
“Your self is yours to integrate. To integrate your self you need to be, in the midst of your experience, a little bit like your own being.” NeedsLittlesSelfBitsLike YouLittle BitMidstIntegrating Author:John de Ruiter
“The more that you need a relationship, the less you are able to be in a relationship. The more that something on the surface can answer you, the less that you will be really answered when you're in it.” NeedsAbleAnswersSurface Author:John de Ruiter