“Feelings are great, and they have a purpose, but it’s certainly not to guide your life. Whoever said, “Follow your heart” was a fool. Your “heart” is your emotional center. Emotions have a great purpose - to allow us to enjoy life, to mourn loss, to have a tangible way to experience love - but feelings are fickle, and they are not meant to be the guiding force in our life.” LoveFeelingsEmotionEmotionsGuidanceMourningManhoodFicklePassivityGuiding Book:Manlihood: The 12 Pillars of Masculinity Source: Manlihood: The 12 Pillars of Masculinity
“What we need to do is treat some of our thoughts like door to door salesmen. If someone comes to your door and asks if he can come inside and throw some dirt on your floor to demonstrate his vaccuum cleaner - you would probably tell him “No thanks! See you later!” And yet - if a friend stopped by with a meatloaf and wanted to visit - we’d say “Come on in!” We need to stop being PASSIVE about what thoughts can take residence in our head.” Self HelpPositive ThinkingPositivitySelf ControlManhoodPassivity Book:Manlihood: The 12 Pillars of Masculinity Source: Manlihood: The 12 Pillars of Masculinity
“Do not let your boss, your spouse, your kids, your neighbors, or anyone push you around or walk all over you. This does not mean you need to be a butt-hole - but you may need to draw some clear lines for the people in your life. Want to do it right? Communicate expectations clearly, and consistently. People cannot treat you the way you want them to treat you unless you tell them HOW to treat you.” RelationshipsConfidenceBoundariesSelf RespectManhoodPassivity Book:Manlihood: The 12 Pillars of Masculinity Source: Manlihood: The 12 Pillars of Masculinity