“From my research and experience, the answer is clear: Father is revolving around Mother like a planet around the sun. The narcissist needs to be married to a spouse who will allow her to be at the center of all the action. That is how it has to be if the marriage is to survive. In the family drama, the narcissist is the star, and her spouse takes a supporting role.” MotherAbuseMothersNarcissismAbusive RelationshipsNarcissistic MothersAbusive Mothers Book:Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers Source: Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
“Dear Mommy I’m doing really good, I get all A’s in school And I don’t cry at bedtime anymore, Though my new mom said I could. I remember how much you hate tears, You slapped them out of me To make me strong, I think it worked. I learned to use a microscope And my hair grew two inches. It’s pretty, just like yours. I’m not allowed to clean the house, Only my own room, Isn’t that a funny rule? You say kids are so much trouble Getting born, they better pay it back. I’m not supposed to take care Of the other kids, only me, I sort of like it. I still get the hole in my stomach When I do something wrong, I have a saying on my mirror “Kids make mistakes, It’s OK,” I read it every day, Sometimes I even believe it. I wonder if you ever think of me Or if you’re glad the troublemaker’s gone, I never want to see you again. I love you, Mommy.” MotherAbuseChildLetter Book:Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers Source: Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers